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Founder of KnCell Technologies

Bob Gorman

My motivation and journey in brief:
Since childhood I have seen and experienced people doing some horrendous things to each other, and also some other people helping each other in significant ways. I want to help stop the horrendous things and increase the helping activities. It was, and still is, always an 'individual' who commits the violence or extends the kindness. So my curiosity developed into a passion to understand individual people, and what 'makes them tick'. Now understanding is nice, but it's not enough. If I simply understand why people commit violence, but can't help them to change, why bother understanding them?
It would turn out to be a lifelong, and sometimes frustrating journey.

An early Clue:
People who are pursuing a personally chosen Dream or Goal, tend to be Excited, Satisfied and Fulfilled even if they experience significant challenges towards their goals. They do not need the artificial excitement of addictions to either excessive substances like alcohol, chocolate, heroin or routines like workaholism, gambling, or sexual excesses.

They do not commit crimes!
They are not violent, and are so busy pursuing their own personal dreams, that they do not have any time or energy left to butt into other people's business.

A personal ray of hope:
Fortunately, I have another passion which also started in childhood, and has never stopped, indeed it has grown, and that is Aviation. I love almost everything about it: flying, the space shuttle, moon journeys, Mars explorations, stealth fighters, even the thoroughness that the NTSB (National Transportation Safety Board) uses to examine every single accident and even close misses; their dedication to reduce future mishaps is extraordinary and an inspiring model for the human services.

In the 100 years since the Wright Brothers first flights, we have developed propeller driven engines, jets, gone to the moon, and have an orbiting space station. The engineering or analytical part of me loves the precision in these advances, and the way they are shared for continuous, incremental improvement.

The human part of me keeps asking: "If we can go to the moon, and return safely, why can't we eliminate unnecessary violence, addiction to substances and routines, mental illness as we know it, and make personal success attainable for everyone"?

If we can, somehow, teach all people how to keep and pursue their own personal dreams, move towards personal satisfaction and fulfillment, and contribute to community; there will be no one left to commit crimes, and perpetrate violence.

Frustrating attempts:
Since so many people around the world, in every culture want these same goals, and dedicate entire lifetimes of effort in this direction, why is there not the progress in education, and psychology (education for living) similar to what we have achieved in aviation, and other sciences? Hundreds of models of both human health and illness have been proposed, some complete with techniques, and occasionally tools. Thousands of self-help books have been written, read, and in many cases provided short, temporary relief for those whose lives were more frustrating than satisfying, more empty than fulfilling.

Yet, Violence of individuals against individuals has been increasing in both quantity and destructiveness.

Towards a solution:
Combining my philosophical and engineering interests and experiences, I decided to examine the assumptions, beliefs, and especially the 'thinking tools' and processes that people were using for their research into people - make that individual personal behavior.
Then compare them to the assumptions, and beliefs, and the 'thinking tools' and processes that people are using for aerospace.
Finally, where possible, transfer the paradigms, and thought processes, techniques, and even the many tools of aerospace to the art of learning how to live well!

A Strategic Personal Decision:
In hindsight, this decision seems a lot more rational and organized, then it was at the time.
After 3 years in a seminary studying for the Catholic priesthood, I switched to St. John's University, and majored in Psychology, a natural choice. But after a year of their psychology courses, I was completely frustrated. The goals of clinical psychology were unclear. In almost every class I asked: What is a healthy person? All of the answers were variations of: remove all troubling symptoms. But I wouldn't buy that. Dead people have no symptoms, but that is not a goal. Without a clear goal, methods of treatment varied all over the place, but most were symptom based. If you have symptom A, use therapy A, etc.

So I made a decision that changed the course of the rest of my life. I switched my major to Philosophy, since Why was, and still is, always my central question, and kept Psychology and English as minors. Career-wise it was a major change. I would not work for a therapy practice or a hospital, and endure their supervision, but while keeping my primary love in psychology, I would have to make my daily living somewhere else. Using my mathematical background, and instinct for precision, that somewhere else was software engineering.

Early hurdles:
While feeding my family with software related jobs, I continued to pursue my primary love, psychology, as an avocation, a passionate avocation, and as a self-funded research career.

  1. The first hurdle is that psychology, and also sociology, and much of medicine, has one primary thinking tool: Statistics. From my perspective it is the wrong tool. Statistics is about groups and averages; Psychology is about individuals. Statistics seeks correlation, I seek causality.

    In philosophy, the primary causal model was Aristotle's 4 necessary and sufficient model of causality, which I liked, but it seemed to be missing something. For Aristotle, the abstract idea was the prime objective, and individual realities were but poor copies of his ideal ideas. For me the exact opposite is true. I care about individuals, my relatives and friends are more important to me than his ideal ideas. Indeed I see ideas as simply tools to make individual lives better. In response, during my last year at the University, 1962, I created the 5th Necessary and Sufficient cause - Context!

  2. The second hurdle, and a huge one, is terminology.
    In the sciences, like aviation, terms needed to have exact precise definitions and measurements. We lost a $125 million Mars orbiter because one group of programmers at NASA used inches, while another group used centimeters.

    In psychology, sociology, psychiatry and even parts of medicine terms were and still are, extremely vague. Compared to the engineering tolerances of hundreds or even thousands of an inch in the manufacture of aircraft & spacecraft, What precisely does 'depressed' mean? And how would you measure it?

    Take a moment and try to answer that!

    Here's an article which tries to make it more clear:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antisocial_personality_disorder
    As you can see, it's still rather vague.

    So I developed Knowledge Cells (KnCells) to aid in the precision needed to communicate meanings, not just words, between the many different disciplines relating to people.

  3. The third hurdle is the sharing of knowledge.
    In aviation, and other sciences, there is some rivalry, for example in bidding on plane contracts, but for the most part, in matters of safety, what is learned by experiment or failure, is shared with others.

    In education, including psychology (education for living) it is not. When individual educators, psychologists, and researchers discover something of value, they tend to keep it to themselves, unless they can publish it and get personal credit for it, and we all lose. The NTSB is the most thorough example of sharing to minimize future disasters. I've used it both to develop my VIPC (Violence Investigation and Prevention Center), and in my current studies to prevent both suicides and future mass murderers like Seung-Hui Cho of Virginia Tech, and earlier Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold of Columbine.

  4. The fourth hurdle is a bit more subtle, but on a practical level far more powerful, and at times pernicious. Those individuals and groups that control our universities and institutes of learning, and much of the media, have declared, in their arrogance that they know what is best for everyone else. They call it 'Objective' knowledge, and declare that anything of a personal nature: observations, values, experiments, experiences, etc. is 'Subjective' and to them, invalid!

    Yet simple observation and study of history shows that all new knowledge starts with an individual, indeed with a personal burning question. He or she then tests that knowledge, (new distinctions and/or new connections), and finally shares it with others.

    So I replaced the Objective vs Subjective knowledge paradigm,
    with a new knowledge paradigm Personal and Shared.

This change in paradigm required new Models, Techniques and Tools for treating people as individuals rather that as members of groups or categories and thereby make a significant improvement in how we treat individuals. I bundled all of these requirements, assumptions, theories, models, techniques, and even tools, under the title of Individuology, a discipline I've been developing, organizing and promoting for the past 2 decades.

Relevant Experiences:
Note:
This was a lengthy description of the years between college and my retirement, and why they make me in some way 'worthy' to speak about my ideas. But then I realized it totally violated my own values and principles. I've spent most of my life, often at great personal expense, preferring personal experimentation and reflection over following other so-called 'authorities'. So, to somehow build myself up as a type of authority was not true to my own principles.

All of my ideas stand completely on their own merit. If you find them useful, great, use them. If they are not useful to you, ignore them. But please judge their usefulness to you by your own experiments and reflection. Nothing I say is true because I say it, just like any other so-called 'authority'.

Having said that, my friends reminded me that it's only fair to you the reader, to show briefly, how and why my own personal life experiences might, I add might, make my ideas worthy of your consideration. So here is a much briefer summary.

Many of the skills, and techniques, and knowledge required to succeed in the software industry turned out to be most useful in my primary pursuit: What makes people tick? Some of them are:

A bold idea...
If simulators can be as useful as the aerospace industry and other industries have shown they can be, why not simulate a therapist? Heresy? I think not. A Software Therapist would never be as good as a real live therapist, but far better than no one at all, and infinitely better than the many therapists that do more harm than help.

Current focus:
Since retiring, my entire focus is to:
Return to the Person Model!
The detour to better thinking tools such as:

were necessary detours, but still detours. Now, having defined and explained them, and tested them in many circumstances, I wish to return to my original challenge, understanding what makes individual persons 'tick' and then help them to 'tick' better! These ideas, models, techniques and tools, I collectively call the discipline of Individuology.

Every time there is another Columbine, or Virginia Tech Massacre, I feel an even stronger need to speak out. We cannot wait for perfect solutions, we must act now, and on 2 separate fronts at the same time.

First, we need to create, or make that promote, the healing processes and tools to help repair those individuals who have already been severely, even overwhelmingly, 'unbalanced' to recover from their profound, life altering wounds, before they act out their frustrations on others. I say promote, because there are already several 'therapeutic' techniques that reduce recovery time from years to weeks, and effectiveness from temporary to permanent relief.

Second, we must stop or at least greatly slow down the creation of more unbalanced individuals. If we stop or heal 4 violent individuals a month, yet allow the creation of 6 new ones, the situation will rapidly deteriorate.

Unfortunately, it IS rapidly deteriorating!

But from non-violence to violence is not a single giant step, there are intermediate steps and critical thresholds between them.
I explore these at: Violence Investigation and Prevention Center

The road from frustration to fulfillment is also not a single step, but the mastery of many separate skills, models, etc.

I believe we can make substantial progress in helping individuals to pursue their personal dreams, and achieve fulfillment through contribution to community, thus eliminating Personal Violence in many spheres of activity. How? By applying the processes and techniques of the aerospace industry, designed to promote accurate communication, and reduce and/or eliminate confusions. Hopefully, we can achieve the progress in the 21st century that aviation did in the 20th century.

My website, articles, books, workshops, blog and other activities are all devoted to making these 'new' models, techniques, and tools, collectively called Individuology, available to hopefully provoke new questions and new answers to these challenges. I say 'new', but they are only new to education and psychology, they are old, tried and true techniques that have proven successful in aviation and other so-called hard sciences.

I look forward to working with other individuals from many, many different disciplines to bring about a better life for all of us.

Significant Personal Influences:
George Kelly - Creator of Constructivist Psychology.
Bucky Fuller - for his notion of "Trim Tabs".
Monty Roberts - The Horse Whisperer - Proof we can train without violence.
Cesar Millan - The Dog Whisperer
* Perhaps, someday I will earn the title of Person Whisperer.
Albert Einstein - for his unrelenting drive to unearth fundamental principles.
The entire aerospace industry, from creative design to the NTSB.

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